No one should coerce you into entering the submissive lifestyle. The decision is entirely yours so choose your dom.
Put to mind that your safety will be in his hands. If you want to enjoy BDSM, you should enter it willingly and through your own choice and yours.
A Dom gets off knowing that he has someone who looks up to him for guidance. You are his little pet. You are his to care for, his to command, his to punish, and his to reward.
Every time you address him properly, you remind him of the hold he has in you.
And nothing pleases your Dom more than to hear his submissive give him her full attention and respect. Know your Dominant by heart.
Just as your Dom needs to learn about your limits and turn-ons, you as the sub, need to reciprocate. Get to know your dom.
Gather as much information as possible. What are his likes and dislikes?
Does he prefer you stand by his side with your head bowed down or does he prefer seeing you down on your knees? Does he Free sex in Salem the sound of your screams or does he prefer hearing the sound of your whimpers?
Even tiny details like how he wants his coffee, what his favorite color is, and what time he leaves for work, can be of value to you as his sub. If you want to please your Dom, you have to know him.
Without him telling you, you already know that he wants you to turn on the TV, and switch to his favorite channel. Or that you have to wait for him to finish eating before you start with your food.
This level of compatibility with your Dom takes time to develop.